The Sacred Tenets
Principles that preserve the sanctity of our shared experience
The Foundation of Trust
These are not mere rules, but sacred covenants that ensure every soul who enters our sanctuary can do so with complete confidence in their safety, dignity, and privacy during our shared intimate experiences. They are the pillars upon which all trust is built and all transformation becomes possible.
Adherence to these principles is not optional - it is the price of admission to intimate experiences beyond the ordinary. They represent our collective commitment to creating spaces where vulnerability becomes strength and authenticity finds its truest expression in our shared intimate experiences.
The Ten Sacred Laws
Consent is Sovereign
Every interaction must begin with clear, enthusiastic, and informed consent. "No" means no, always and immediately. "Yes" can become "no" at any moment without explanation or consequence. Consent is not a destination but a continuous journey of mutual respect and communication.
Discretion is Divine
What occurs within our sanctuaries remains forever within. No photography, recording, or documentation of any kind is permitted. Names, faces, and experiences are held in sacred confidence. To speak of another's participation outside these walls is to betray the very foundation of trust upon which we stand.
Respect is Paramount
Every individual, regardless of their chosen level of participation, deserves complete respect and dignity. Judgment has no place in our community. We honor each person's boundaries, choices, and journey without question or criticism.
Elegance in Presentation
Attire should reflect the sophisticated nature of our gatherings. Whether formal evening wear, tastefully provocative ensembles, or themed costumes, presentation should always honor the elevated atmosphere we collectively create and maintain.
Sobriety and Clarity
Participation under the influence of substances that impair judgment or consent is strictly forbidden. Clear minds make clear choices. Our experiences are designed to heighten natural sensations and connections, not to substitute for them.
Communication is Sacred
Open, honest communication is not just encouragedâit is essential. Share your desires, express your boundaries, voice your concerns. Silence in the face of discomfort serves no one. Our facilitators are always available to assist with difficult conversations.
Preparation and Presence
Arrive prepared both physically and mentally for the experience ahead. This includes appropriate hygiene, emotional readiness, and a commitment to being fully present. Half-hearted participation diminishes the experience for all involved.
Boundaries are Beautiful
Personal limits are not failures but giftsâthey create the safe containers within which authentic exploration becomes possible. Communicate your boundaries clearly and respect those of others without question or persuasion.
The Sanctuary Principle
Our venues are sacred spaces that exist outside the judgments and expectations of the ordinary world. Mobile devices are surrendered upon entry. The outside world and its concerns remain outside until the evening's journey concludes.
Transformation Through Trust
True transformation occurs only in environments of absolute trust. Honor the courage it takes for others to be vulnerable. Protect the sacred space we create together. Leave only with gratitude; carry away only wisdom.
Sacred Accountability
The Guardian's Role
Our trained facilitators serve as guardians of these principles, ensuring that every gathering maintains the highest standards of safety, respect, and consent. They are empowered to intervene at any moment to protect the well-being of our community.
Consequences of Transgression
Violation of these sacred tenets results in immediate removal from the experience and permanent exclusion from our community. No refunds are provided for violations. We do not offer second chances when it comes to matters of consent, respect, or discretion.
The Support Network
Every member has access to ongoing support before, during, and after their experiences with us. Our care extends beyond the walls of our venues to ensure lasting well-being and integration of transformative experiences.
"These principles are not restrictions but liberationsâthey free us to explore the depths of human connection without fear, to trust without reservation, and to transform without limits."
â The UNDRMSK Charter
The Sacred Agreement
By seeking membership in UNDRMSK, you enter into a covenant that transcends mere legal obligation. You pledge to uphold these principles not from compulsion, but from a genuine understanding of their necessity in creating the extraordinary experiences we offer.
This is your promise to yourself, to your fellow members, and to the sacred trust we share. Honor it, and discover what lies beyond the mask of the everyday world.